Thursday, February 7, 2008

I believe in ghosts


I've got serious issue fatigue. That's why I didn't post yesterday. I spent all day reading the post Super Tuesday analysis and frankly I'm spent. I can't bring myself to write about racism or sexism or the economy or super delegates or the media. I just can't.

I can't even bring myself to read about weighty issues. I stayed off the computer last night. No Salon. No Politico. No Huffington Post. No New York Times. I didn't even surf over to my favorite blogs. Instead, I crawled into bed with a magazine to watch "Ghost Hunters International" on the Sci Fi Channel--a cheesetastic, guilty pleasure.

I am fascinated by things that go bump in the night--not hockey mask wearing maniacs or glassy-eyed aliens, but spooks and specters. I love a good ghost story, especially local legends: Resurrection Mary who roams Archer Ave. southwest of Chicago, the chilling tale of the LaLaurie house in News Orleans' French Quarter, or the Grey Lady of Evansville, Indiana's Willard Library. Want to know the hidden history of a place? Take a local ghost tour. New Orleans and Chicago offer great ones.

To me, the best kind of ghost story is a true one. Forget Edgar Allen Poe and Stephen King, I like to hear about real people's encounters with the supernatural.

Once, my most straight-laced, no-nonsense friend told me about a haunted house she and her family lived in when she was small. Her voice caught in her throat as she explained that once, while lying in bed, she clearly saw a little girl standing in the hallway. Thinking it was her sister, my friend called out. "What," her sister answered from a twin bed in the same room. Another time, my friend, her sister and brother, while home alone, saw what looked like a figure in red descending the stairs. Things also tended to disappear in that house; nothing ever seemed to be where you left it. My friend's family moved after little more than a year.

I got a chill just typing that story.

The only thing I know for sure about the other side is that none of us know for sure what happens there. I imagine the truth is more spectacular than anything we've dreamt up. Today, with all our knowledge and technology, we tend to think we have it all figured out. We understand it all. For me, a good real-life ghost story provides a rip in that certainty. It suggests that some things still are unexplained. It says that in this vast and wonderful universe, human beings only know a fraction of what there is to know.

For some reason I find that comforting. So I believe in ghosts.

What about you? Have you had any encounters with the supernatural? Do you believe in ghosts? Or, are you as politics and big issue fatigued and I am?

Photo: Famous ghost photo from Chicago's allagedly haunted Bachelor's Grove Cemetery

"The photo was taken on infra-red film during a daytime excursion to the reputedly haunted graveyard. In the developed photograph, there appeared a semi-transparent figure of a woman seated on a tombstone within the cemetery grounds. She was not visible to anyone who was present and in fact, the image appeared in a much larger, almost panoramic view of the cemetery. The portion of the photo where the woman appears was enlarged when investigators noticed there was something out of the ordinary about it." SOURCE

8 comments:

Deesha said...

**What about you? Have you had any encounters with the supernatural? Do you believe in ghosts? Or, are you as politics and big issue fatigued and I am?**

I don't like the word "ghosts" because its connotations have become so to varied and...campy...to do justice to what I believe are very real supernatural events.

I have not "seen" any of my loved ones who have passed on, but one of them showed me her handiwork a few years ago. I saw her presence in my home, and based on what she did, she was able to communicate to me her concern about things happening in my life at her time. Eventually, I heeded her warnings, but I wish I had done so sooner.

I am being purposefully vague because I've only shared the details of this experience with trusted friends. I look forward to talking to you more about this, Tami--but not in this forum! :-)

Yes, I've got issue and Super Tuesday analysis fatigue, and I know I didn't read nearly as much s you did. So I feel your pain!

Yesterday, I read non-political magazines instead. Mind-candy...sometimes it does a body (and a brain) good!

~Deesha

DMB said...

I have had a few 'supernatural' experiences and I think they are great. From communicating with spirits (loved ones) to out of body experiences, I love them all.

Mes Deux Cents said...

Tami,

I've never seen a haint but I think the paranormal is very interesting.

From a scientific point of view; energy cannot be destroyed, so it's possible that those who are no longer living are using that energy to walk amongst us in some form.

Los Angelista said...

Oh yes, I've had some experiences with ghosts. I do believe in them. I tend to not try to make contact with spirits because I saw The Exorcist too many times growing up for me to think it's no big deal. I am very sensitive to negative energy/spirits and moved out of my last apartment because a dark shadow appeared shortly after the birth of my eldest son. It was very hostile to the baby and then became hostile to me. Nothing ever touched me but it would stand behind me in a very menacing way, particularly when I was giving the baby a bath. I kept praying in the house and focusing on making it go way and then a two bedroom apartment opened up in my building. Thank goodness!

At my grandmothers house, I could never go in the basement unless forced to. I'd always see a woman crying down there and sense a lot of evil energy. In high school, I did some research and found out that that the man who'd lived in the house in the 1930's before my grandparents had killed three women in the basement and buried them in the floor.

Okay, now I'm scaring myself just thinking about this stuff. Let me go say some prayers to clear my mind!

Tami said...

Thanks a lot, Liz. You now have me checking over my shoulder as I type. Wow! That must have been frightening. When I watch my favorite haunted house shows, like A Haunting on the Discovery Channel, I always wonder how I would react if I lived in a haunted house. But again, I REALLY don't want to know.

MDC,

See...that's the other thing I find fascinating about spirits. I know that about energy, too. And I wonder what happens to our energy when we die if energy can't just disappear.

Danielle said...

I have one in my current house. I've seen his face while passing from room to room. He was a former tenant and a "good" guy according to a friend.

He likes to play w/closet doors and leave them open after you've closed them.

Timi said...

I do believe in the paranormal. I've believed ever since I saw my dead neighbor in our apartment building's laundry room when I was a kid. His name was Mr. Franz. Mr. Franz used to always wink & wave at me when I would be in the laundry room with my mother.

Mr. Franz died and I recall being in the laundry room with my mom. My mother told me to stay put while she went upstairs to get something. As I sat watching the dryer spin, I heard someone walking behind me. When I turned around, I saw Mr. Franz. He was standing in the corner of the laundry room as he usually did. He waved and winked at me. I took off running upstairs to get my mom. When I told my mom the story, she never believed me. I never went in that laundry room again.

That was one of several ghostly experiences that I have had. I'm a member the East Coast Society of Paranormal Encounters. We do Ghost Tours and investigations. I love it. I'm a real live "Ghost Hunter"

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